Message | Travis, you have obviously put in a lot of energy and $$ into these websites asking for help from the gay community. Sorry dude, but you need to "Let Go". You are obsessed! One live meeting and a bunch of phone sex don't make for husband material. This seems to be only a catalyst to some deep pain within yourself. You can't fix or change anyone in this family, you can only fix yourself. "God Grant me the Serenity to Accept the Things I Cannot Change, Courage to change the Things I Can and the WISDOM to Know the Difference" Bless you Travis, Let Go, and get on with your life. This is from someone who has been where you are and I know how you suffer. You are deeply co-dependant and some therapy would help you alot. Take Care. |