Message | Wow. I can only give my opinion on this and obviously can't claim to speak for all American women, but as a 21-year-old, fairly well-adjusted and reasonably attractive (I won't say "hot," but I have no trouble getting laid if I want to) college student, I have to say you are one of the most pathetic human beings whose existence I've ever had the misfortune to discover. No wonder you couldn't get dates; you know what turns most women off? It's not your physical appearance so much as your completely disgusting sense of entitlement. Want to know why women seem hostile sometimes when men approach us? Because you treat us like we're objects, "hot, desirable white women" that you fantasize about instead of REAL HUMAN BEINGS. Try interacting with women like they have personalities instead of just C cups, and see if that gets you a little farther. Because you know what? We're people too, who feel sad and scared and isolated and confused sometimes just like you did. But that would never occur to you, would it, because you're too busy trying to get our clothes off so you can have some sort of transcendent experience that probably lasts for about 5 minutes at best.
Oh and also? Ever heard of a double standard? I can't believe how much you complain about women who are fat, ugly or unattractive, because news flash: You're not exactly the best-looking guy either. So maybe lower your standards to, oh I don't know, your own level and you'd have some more luck.
Reply: My God. Your response is typical of a dumbed down public who doesn't have a clue what I'm talking about and who is programmed and conditioned to believe that anyone who doesn't thrive in the system or fit into it, is "the problem".
Nothing you say is relevant to my situation or to anything. Of course I treat women nicely. I have a lot of interests and am open and friendly. It's not my fault that people in the US live in bubbles and think it's normal and do not talk to strangers unless it's business related? It's not my fault that American girls are so picky and think they are too good for most guys. It's not my fault that the US has the WORST dating scene for men in the world. The blame isn't on my shoulders. See here for a list of reasons why:
http://www.happierabroad.com/executivesummary.php
And also these ten reasons:
http://www.happierabroad.com/ebook/Page73.htm
None of your advice gets any results. I do not treat women like sex objects. I like conversation too. But if every girl wants to be alone and doesn't even take the time to talk to me, then it's NOT my fault or my problem. Duh. I can't lower my standards and force myself to be attracted to someone I'm not, and neither can you. That's the reality. Duh! And besides, my standards are not that high anyway. I like lots of plain looking girls. Your words are purely emotional, not logical.
Face it, the US is one of the worst places for dating, social life and mental health. I've presented a ton of proof in my ebook and pictures.
Case closed. You lose.
PS - As far as you being well adjusted to a sick dysfunctional society, you might heed the words of this Indian Philosopher:
"It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society." - Jiddu Krishnamurti
And also:
“All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident.” - Arthur Schopenhauer, German philosopher
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